Monthly Archives: April 2015

We are Seeking Writers

We Are Seeking Writers

Would you like to participate with Digging Deeper? All articles are written by Gaston County folks and all are about Gaston critical issues.

  • Would you like to ADD NAMES to our distribution list? Today we send our articles to over 950 folks. Send your suggested names and e-mail addresses to me .*  Being on our list is FREE!
  • Would you enjoy writing about an issue for which you have keen interest? Thirty (30) have already written and more than 30 are waiting.
  • Do you have high interest in some critical issue, but do not want to be the writer? If so, maybe we can connect your information with someone to write.  We have done this in the past and it works well.

· Communicate directly with me, Bill Seabrook,
704-879-4223 or mrsea9332@aol.com

Is Digging Deeper making a difference? YES!

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Talking FROM Poverty, Not About Poverty

Let’s talk about the war on poverty.  Some of you remember the Johnson administration.  That’s when we went to war with poverty.

We are war weary at this point.

And as we are weary, we are, as would stand to reason after 50 long years, bitter with this pernicious, pervasive enemy.  Over time poverty, the enemy, evolved, or perhaps the better choice would be devolved, into something more personal, more tangible.   Poverty required a representative, a face.  Enter the poor.  We are increasingly tired of, weary of, and disdainful of the poor.

The poor are the enemy.  They are, to borrow a phrase from a weeklong news special on one of the ratings-seeking major news outlets, on the wrong side of: ENTITLEMENT NATION:  MAKERS VS. TAKERS.

Takers?  Entitlement?  Forget the least of these; we’re talking about thieves.  Takers.  And not just any takers.  Entitled takers.  Arrogant takers.  These stories wouldn’t run as a weeklong feature if they didn’t drive ratings.  So someone is watching and listening.  Is that someone you?  Are you doing your part to stoke the news ratings, to encourage the rhetoric?  If not you, then who?

Them.  I’m sure it’s them.  You know them.  They are the folks who rallied to eliminate emergency unemployment benefits in our state. Our state was the only state in the nation eligible for emergency benefits which said: No, Thank You.  We had more people unemployed in Gaston County than we had jobs available in North Carolina.  Let me type that again:  We had more people unemployed in Gaston County than we had jobs available in North Carolina. That’s North Carolina.  The state.   Vinegar sauce to   tomato sauce.  Manteo to Murphy.  Abowt to about.  The whole thing.  Why?  We did it because these takers don’t want to work.  These takers want to be poor.  They’re takers.  Takers, well, they take.  It’s just what they do.

The most immediate route to poverty is total loss of income.  Eliminating the unemployment income source pushed more people into the role of taker.  Some of them will be long term takers.  They are children growing up in poverty.  Taker children end up, all too often, with a condition known as Taker Brain.  (The scientific term is Poverty Brain.)  Taker Brain means less gray matter.  Less gray matter means a lessened ability to learn, to be prepared for kindergarten, to function socially.  Taker parents bring taker children into a world where:

  • Children receive less cognitive stimulation: less reading to them, talking to them, playing with them, engaging them, encouraging them. This stuff matters. It matters more than I could ever say.
  • They live in neighborhoods with more environmental risks. Lead paint, crowded and noisy living conditions, high crime, violence; all of these are more common in taker neighborhoods. None of them are beneficial to children.
  • Parents who are more likely to be involved in domestic violence and ongoing conflict. Stressed parents in a violent home. Add a crying child. Do the math.

Taker Children still grow up.  And they typically keep right on taking.

A taker.  As in taking what is not yours, taking what is mine.  As in being a drag on making.  As in being less, wrong, below the grade.  A failure.  A thief.  Takers are lazy.  Takers won’t work.  Takers enjoy taking.

When you frame the discussion of poverty this way, you do some amazing things.  You take any dignity, any honor, and sense of value from the poor.  You dehumanize the poor.   And then the poor don’t matter.

No happy ending here.  I don’t have a solution to poverty.  You don’t either.  No one does.

I do know this Maker/Taker distraction creates barriers for compassion, respect, graciousness, and, worst of all, understanding.  Let’s not talk about programs, benefits and what you read on the internet, and hear on the television for a moment.  We don’t understand poverty.  We don’t understand the poor.  We can’t.  We aren’t in poverty.  We aren’t poor.  We don’t live in that world.  Until we spend time, human to human, with someone who is poor, and we listen, we never will understand.

How do we create an environment where this is possible?     One of the most promising practices to meet this end is a community engagement strategy known as Circles.  Are you familiar?  Google Circles USA.  Have a look.  And watch this space.  You’re going to hear more about this soon.

James Burgess                                                                                                                            Community Impact Director                                                                                                                United Way of Gaston County

Leadership

I believe that for any community to prosper, it must have strong, capable leaders dedicated to helping made life better for everyone in it.

How do you become a leader or help those who are already helping, you ask? Get involved!

The United Way of Gaston County, the Salvation Army, Crisis Assistance Ministry, CaroMont Regional Medical Center, local churches, local government and many other organizations could use your time and financial support.  Find one whose mission speaks to your abilities or passion and volunteer to serve on their board of directors, work at their events or donate to their cause.

Get involved and know the satisfaction of sharing your God-given talents with others.  I don’t believe our so-called “Greatest Generation” is any greater than today’s young people.  They are many who are motivated to serve their community.

I ask the new, young leaders to show their dedication to our community by working to make life better for all in Gaston County.

Tete Pearson